Discussion: WTF WAS WITH BETTE AND JODI'S SEX SCENE!

"Here's the other thing. I don't even think that Tina realizes the change in herself which makes her all the more attractive to Bette. I don't see Tina as trying to prove something to Bette or control the situation at all. She wants Bette no doubt about it. I am totally enjoying this powerful journey the writers are taking these two characters. Bette was awesome in that scene with Jodi. I like angry, wanting & vulnerable Bette it makes her all the more sexy to me. Cheers!"

"I agree with you, but I think that Jodi reconecting with her ex is taking this in another direction, like maybe Bette will be set free without hurting Jodi."

"Yes! I agree and that makes me mad though. See I have issues cause Bette was so in Love with Jodi at the end of Season 4, the sign she stole and brought to her was sooo sweet. And now all the sudden she LOVES Tina again. I mean I know that the love was always still there. But come on, you make me believe in Bette and Jodi and then all of the sudden they are fighting over this stupid kitchen tabel thing! LAME.

Don;t get me wrong I love Bette and Tina now but still! COme on, and now take the easy way out and have Jodi talking to her ex. "

"I think we are forgetting a couple of things first Bette doesn't like to lose, and she always has the last word. Bette would never just let Jodi walk away, she did what she had to to win. Also at the time she did not know Tina was an options, Tina was doing everything she could to help her get Jodi back. Why would she do that if she wanted her back. Remember she left Bette not the other way around.

But on a larger scale Tina and Bette had been together for seven years in season one, BUT, Tina had just stopped working to prepare herself to have a baby. SOOOO, the Tina we saw in season 1 was not the Tina Bette was use to. There is no way she could have been as sucessful as Bette said she was other wise. The Tina we are seeing now in season 5 has to be more like the Tina Bette fell in love with. After making love with her again, seeing Sam flirt with Tina on set had to be tearing her up inside to think of her or any other woman touching Tina. Making her feel totally out of CONTROL, the one thing we all know Bette can't live without. So when Jodi walks in she takes control back, the one way she knew how. "

"I don't know, call me old-fashioned, but I would take offense and even be disgusted if someone used me as an object of masturbation. "

"I just don't see this as a control thing for either one of them. I think its much deeper than that, its completely raw for both. i think bette feels "out of control" with her feelings for Tina but i don't see Tina as thinking "i'm in control here". Tina just seems to be in a place of acceptance and if this is going to happen then she is not going to force anything nor is she going to deny anything either.

Like the song says "sometimes the hardest thing and the right thing are the same".

I'm a sucker I guess when it comes to matters of the Heart. I don't think you can control love. Its too powerful and unpredictable.

Geez, I should get back to work. Ugghhh.

Breaking Up Sux!
Hump Day Rox!

Cheers!"

"Hadnt thought of it that way, good job! "