Discussion: Bette, Tina and Jodi

"I TOTALLY AGREE!! Bette hasn't learned a thing since s1 and I don't think she deserves either of them. When you love someone as much as Bette claims she loves Tina, you don't hesitate - you follow your heart and go after her. Seems like Bette is just using Jodi b/c she's afraid to be alone. Jodi is too strong and self-sufficient for Bette's ego and Tina is stupid for just sitting back and waiting on Bette to make a decision. And you're right - once Bette and Tina get back together, it will be just a matter of time before Bette strays. (btw, I posted a similar thread on tibette.com and got blasted, so it's nice to find someone out there who agrees with me on this one!) =)"

"You gotta learn how to take the punches as they come and also be prepared for them. LOL"

"Bette and Tina have always been in love with each others. When someone you love does something that hurts you, you have the tendency to hurt them back. I think Tina and Bette took it a little to far. They finally came back around and forgave each other, and maybe grew-up just a little bit in the process."

"I think everyone needs to remember the 7 year history here. Bette is Tina's first, they have a child and the time. I think it would be very difficult for Tina NOT to want to be with Bette. As for Bette, the girl needs counseling andthey need to go to couple's counseling. I am in a 10 year relationship and we have a 3 year old together. If my partner cheated I can't say for sure I would leave. Why? Because of our son and our history together. How can you just start all over again and forget that history, that life. How would you ever fully get over it?"

"the heart wants what it wants, Tina and Bette both had so much growing to do both together and apart but they never stopped loving each other. It takes so much more than love to substain a relationship, yes these two keep going apart and coming back together that's where real love comes in. It makes you want to keep trying cause your heart won't let you do anything else.

I hate that Jodi or anyone got hurt but Bette and Tina are TiBette and they belong together "

"I know that most or maybe all of you are not going to disagree with me "

"Ist, wasn't that a typo-didn't you mean to say "I know must or maybe all of you are not going to AGREE (not disagree) with me...??? I "disagree with you, in that I could not stand Jodi & Bette together. Also, that "just: a story-"once a cheater always a cheater"-have you thought about the fact that it has not been 4-5 years? that Bette cheated on Tina and perhaps B realizes-she even said "it doesn't compare"-and that she can change-don't your ever give someone, you really care about, a 2nd chance?? Wow, it my life partner had not given me a lot of 2nd chances, I don't know where I'd be now...tho the issue was not cheating...it was abusing alchol-but, hey, I was not physically abusive-it was verbal-not hat I'm making excuses, it was wrong. But she loves me and gave me lots of chances and now I am so gratefully SOBER."

"I know that most or maybe all of you are not going to disagree with me but I didn't want Jodi and Bette to break up and I really didn't want Tina and Bette to get back together! They get on my nerves! I have 2 friends that do this all the time. They cheat on each other and hook up with these girls and allow them to fall in love with them and then hook back up with each other again while hurting the feelings of these other girls. It makes me angry. I know it's just a show but this shit happens all the time and it ain't cool. I don't think they belong toghether and they will cheat on each other again. Like the story goes once a cheater always a cheater. (Now let me have it cause I know ya'll love this couple to death I just had to voice the opinions of my wife and myself)"