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mokenpahu
60. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 25 2008, 1:24 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 25 2008, 1:24 PM EDT
"yup...but thats life........every obstacle make u...stronger....quack quack....!!! u ve got to feel the pain to reach the real things.......oops..iam supposed to b a duck.....hehehehehehehehe!!! dont run away.......thats mot heal ur feeling........DUCKY"S WISE WORDS.........:):)"
well Duckie, This is true.....some have to learn the hard way. But Life itself is a lesson. Some learn really quick......that when it comes to love there are different lessons. Love doesnt always have to hurt you know......and it is a action more than a feeling I believe. I can say some mix up being really nice to a person as Im in love with you. Some even have it in their mind....one thing means this....and its not when it meant this. So I dont think its a straight thing or a Lez thing. I do believe that if you believe you are in love,and the person is honest with you and tells you No Im not and I see you for a friend . shouldnt you except that....and not hate that person. I mean it sucks to get hurt,but I think when there is honestly there hey.....You need adump truck to hit !!!! you know what I mean? what do you think????
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xamnagol
xamnagol
61. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 25 2008, 7:57 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 25 2008, 7:57 PM EDT
"Some straight girls hate lesbians because they have tried it and pretend that they did not like it, but you know that they did and will not admit to it. Just like the song i heard( I kissed a girl to try it and i hope my boyfriend won't mind it)."
KATY PERRY!!!! I LOVE THAT SONG!!!!
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xamnagol
xamnagol
62. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 25 2008, 7:59 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 25 2008, 7:59 PM EDT
"well Duckie, This is true.....some have to learn the hard way. But Life itself is a lesson. Some learn really quick......that when it comes to love there are different lessons. Love doesnt always have to hurt you know......and it is a action more than a feeling I believe. I can say some mix up being really nice to a person as Im in love with you. Some even have it in their mind....one thing means this....and its not when it meant this. So I dont think its a straight thing or a Lez thing. I do believe that if you believe you are in love,and the person is honest with you and tells you No Im not and I see you for a friend . shouldnt you except that....and not hate that person. I mean it sucks to get hurt,but I think when there is honestly there hey.....You need adump truck to hit !!!! you know what I mean? what do you think????"
I THINK LOVE SUCKS!
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katie295
katie295
63. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 25 2008, 8:55 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 25 2008, 8:55 PM EDT
"I THINK LOVE SUCKS!"
wow you did get hurt.......................
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xamnagol
xamnagol
64. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 25 2008, 9:46 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 25 2008, 9:46 PM EDT
"wow you did get hurt......................."
yeah she got me good...
Ever hear the NaTasha Bedingfield song...I Bruise Easily??? That kinda explains it.
And her song Soulmate kinda explains the end of it.
Or my ex's favorite song for me That's What You Get by Paramore...although I'd say their song DECOY was more what she was actually doing to me.
Somehow my ex and I got talking about love and sex after we broke up and she had started talking to me again...and I told her if I ever want "IT" that's all it's gonna be about...she proved to me that shit ain't about love....there's no such thing...it's just about getting what you want from someone...she wanted me emotionally but not physically and I wanted both...someday when she was ready and if she was never ready that was fine with me...I wanted a wife more than a lover...but from now on as far as I was concerned there was no such thing as love just sex so that's what I was gonna be about...but since I can't see myself with anyone but her it doesn't really matter...especially since in the end I had gotten in a different way exactly what SHE HAD THOUGHT I WAS AFTER...I did get fucked...fucked over...I'm probably the only virgin who's been fucked more than Bill Clinton.
I don't know...she never understood how I felt about her...she always viewed herself one way (as a sex object cause of her molestation and rape) and could never see herself as being worth more than that. I could never get her to understand...I don't suppose my poem woulda helped her see that even if she had read it when I emailed it to her a few weeks ago along with the letter she was suppose to pick up from me when she came to my house the last time I spoke with her with her new girlfriend.
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katie295
katie295
65. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 25 2008, 9:50 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 25 2008, 9:50 PM EDT
"yeah she got me good...
Ever hear the NaTasha Bedingfield song...I Bruise Easily??? That kinda explains it.
And her song Soulmate kinda explains the end of it.
Or my ex's favorite song for me That's What You Get by Paramore...although I'd say their song DECOY was more what she was actually doing to me.
Somehow my ex and I got talking about love and sex after we broke up and she had started talking to me again...and I told her if I ever want "IT" that's all it's gonna be about...she proved to me that shit ain't about love....there's no such thing...it's just about getting what you want from someone...she wanted me emotionally but not physically and I wanted both...someday when she was ready and if she was never ready that was fine with me...I wanted a wife more than a lover...but from now on as far as I was concerned there was no such thing as love just sex so that's what I was gonna be about...but since I can't see myself with anyone but her it doesn't really matter...especially since in the end I had gotten in a different way exactly what SHE HAD THOUGHT I WAS AFTER...I did get fucked...fucked over...I'm probably the only virgin who's been fucked more than Bill Clinton.
I don't know...she never understood how I felt about her...she always viewed herself one way (as a sex object cause of her molestation and rape) and could never see herself as being worth more than that. I could never get her to understand...I don't suppose my poem woulda helped her see that even if she had read it when I emailed it to her a few weeks ago along with the letter she was suppose to pick up from me when she came to my house the last time I spoke with her with her new girlfriend."
great new girlfriend that sucks
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xamnagol
xamnagol
66. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 25 2008, 10:09 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 25 2008, 10:09 PM EDT
"great new girlfriend that sucks"
Yeah talk AWKWARD. That and the fact that she had told me for the last 3 months that she wasn't ready to be with anyone she needed to get a handle on herself in therapy...which she turned around and quit...and on the phone when I asked her what she was doing she told me she figured what the hell, she'd give it a shot...she thought it would...heck she'd MAKE it work...sounds like she really...um...likes this girl huh?...don't think she's learned a damn thing from how bad she hurt me.
So then she gets there with this chick right and it's over course how appropriate in my life it's the ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY OF THE DAY I SLIPPED AND TOLD HER I WAS IN LOVE WITH HER! and she decides we all need to HANG apparently so we're all talking and all of a sudden she turns BEET RED and it flys out of her mouth "Oh my god. You two are exactly alike." and then she covers her face and refused to look at us for like 5 minutes...I wonder what the heck her reaction was about.
I also wanna know what me an ugly 27 year old virgin white chick has in common with a 22 year old VERY BUTCH experienced black girl covered in tattoo's and body piercings.
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sriwijava
sriwijava
67. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 25 2008, 10:10 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 25 2008, 10:10 PM EDT
"Some straight girls hate lesbians because they have tried it and pretend that they did not like it, but you know that they did and will not admit to it. Just like the song i heard( I kissed a girl to try it and i hope my boyfriend won't mind it)."
maybe not hate..............i dont know....i think all people r born nice...it just different point of view....sometimes people act the opposite to hide the real feelings....but thats just a choice....u can chow it or hide it...every single person has their own reason...........quack quack...!!
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xamnagol
xamnagol
68. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 25 2008, 10:20 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 25 2008, 10:20 PM EDT
"maybe not hate..............i dont know....i think all people r born nice...it just different point of view....sometimes people act the opposite to hide the real feelings....but thats just a choice....u can chow it or hide it...every single person has their own reason...........quack quack...!!"
I think it's probably more accurate that they hate THEMSELVES not lesbians....like my ex....she's SOOOOO GAY but she wants to be straight...so sometimes she really seems to hate me...but I think it's more her hating herself.
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katie295
katie295
69. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 25 2008, 10:24 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 25 2008, 10:24 PM EDT
"I think it's probably more accurate that they hate THEMSELVES not lesbians....like my ex....she's SOOOOO GAY but she wants to be straight...so sometimes she really seems to hate me...but I think it's more her hating herself."
sounds good
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sriwijava
sriwijava
70. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 25 2008, 10:24 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 25 2008, 10:24 PM EDT
"well Duckie, This is true.....some have to learn the hard way. But Life itself is a lesson. Some learn really quick......that when it comes to love there are different lessons. Love doesnt always have to hurt you know......and it is a action more than a feeling I believe. I can say some mix up being really nice to a person as Im in love with you. Some even have it in their mind....one thing means this....and its not when it meant this. So I dont think its a straight thing or a Lez thing. I do believe that if you believe you are in love,and the person is honest with you and tells you No Im not and I see you for a friend . shouldnt you except that....and not hate that person. I mean it sucks to get hurt,but I think when there is honestly there hey.....You need adump truck to hit !!!! you know what I mean? what do you think????"
well.........love can cause many feelings.......one of that is hurt...the problem is in handling hurt feeling everybody has their own way too.....i always handle it in easy way...u not in love with me so what?? iam not gonna die bcos of it......or i never gonna hate person who isnt in love with me....but thats me.....we all r different person....some even have in their mind....all i can say...theres nothing wrong with that....right honesty is everything but hey... sometimes people lie to feel the love.......and everyone has right to feel in love even with someone who not in love with his/her......maybe the way is wrong..but there's nothing wrong with love , loving or in love...just my tiny brain opinion...quack quack mokie!!!
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sriwijava
sriwijava
71. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 25 2008, 10:35 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 25 2008, 10:35 PM EDT
"yeah she got me good...
Ever hear the NaTasha Bedingfield song...I Bruise Easily??? That kinda explains it.
And her song Soulmate kinda explains the end of it.
Or my ex's favorite song for me That's What You Get by Paramore...although I'd say their song DECOY was more what she was actually doing to me.
Somehow my ex and I got talking about love and sex after we broke up and she had started talking to me again...and I told her if I ever want "IT" that's all it's gonna be about...she proved to me that shit ain't about love....there's no such thing...it's just about getting what you want from someone...she wanted me emotionally but not physically and I wanted both...someday when she was ready and if she was never ready that was fine with me...I wanted a wife more than a lover...but from now on as far as I was concerned there was no such thing as love just sex so that's what I was gonna be about...but since I can't see myself with anyone but her it doesn't really matter...especially since in the end I had gotten in a different way exactly what SHE HAD THOUGHT I WAS AFTER...I did get fucked...fucked over...I'm probably the only virgin who's been fucked more than Bill Clinton.
I don't know...she never understood how I felt about her...she always viewed herself one way (as a sex object cause of her molestation and rape) and could never see herself as being worth more than that. I could never get her to understand...I don't suppose my poem woulda helped her see that even if she had read it when I emailed it to her a few weeks ago along with the letter she was suppose to pick up from me when she came to my house the last time I spoke with her with her new girlfriend."
u know what...i guess u really in love with her?? r u?? thats the question.....u trying to make her understand thats she worth more than what she thinks.. stop make her understand.....let her think and try understand what she worth for.....and maybe u the one who should understand her......thats make ur life will be easier.......just my stupid thought...quack quack!!
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sriwijava
sriwijava
72. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 25 2008, 10:45 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 25 2008, 10:45 PM EDT
"Yeah talk AWKWARD. That and the fact that she had told me for the last 3 months that she wasn't ready to be with anyone she needed to get a handle on herself in therapy...which she turned around and quit...and on the phone when I asked her what she was doing she told me she figured what the hell, she'd give it a shot...she thought it would...heck she'd MAKE it work...sounds like she really...um...likes this girl huh?...don't think she's learned a damn thing from how bad she hurt me.
So then she gets there with this chick right and it's over course how appropriate in my life it's the ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY OF THE DAY I SLIPPED AND TOLD HER I WAS IN LOVE WITH HER! and she decides we all need to HANG apparently so we're all talking and all of a sudden she turns BEET RED and it flys out of her mouth "Oh my god. You two are exactly alike." and then she covers her face and refused to look at us for like 5 minutes...I wonder what the heck her reaction was about.
I also wanna know what me an ugly 27 year old virgin white chick has in common with a 22 year old VERY BUTCH experienced black girl covered in tattoo's and body piercings."
u know my favorite song......." u r beautiful in every single way........" yup.......thats true........dont feel so bad about ur self....u r more than what u think u r...actually ..everybody r........QUACK QUACK
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xamnagol
xamnagol
73. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 25 2008, 11:52 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 25 2008, 11:52 PM EDT
"u know what...i guess u really in love with her?? r u?? thats the question.....u trying to make her understand thats she worth more than what she thinks.. stop make her understand.....let her think and try understand what she worth for.....and maybe u the one who should understand her......thats make ur life will be easier.......just my stupid thought...quack quack!!"
Don't worry about it anymore...well I do but I don't...she never understood. Tough place to be. I really love her with all my heart...but I hate the person she's choosing to be...she's better than the games she plays...but she'll always run...even if she's the one that keeps pranking my phone...if in her heart she has something to say...she'll never say it...she'll just keep calling and hanging up without a word...and I just can't waste my time anymore...the lying hurts too much...and if it's gonna cost me my life I just can't be a part of hers anymore...missing hers killing me slowly from the inside out...but if I'd stayed I'd probably be dead by now...you say everybody has their way of handling things...well my ex is the love'em and leave'em type...me I guess I love too hard too much...I would've done anything for her...even now I'd die to protect her...but I just don't wanna hurt anymore.
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xamnagol
xamnagol
74. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 25 2008, 11:56 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 25 2008, 11:56 PM EDT
"u know my favorite song......." u r beautiful in every single way........" yup.......thats true........dont feel so bad about ur self....u r more than what u think u r...actually ..everybody r........QUACK QUACK"
Hard not to. This whole experience really fucked with my head.
I thought nothing in my life would ever hurt more than the shit with my family...I was wrong.
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katie295
katie295
75. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 26 2008, 3:31 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 26 2008, 3:31 PM EDT
"Hard not to. This whole experience really fucked with my head.
I thought nothing in my life would ever hurt more than the shit with my family...I was wrong."
damnnnnnn with all the women on this board to make friends with your gonna pass that by by livivng in the past???????????? reach out someone will take your hand i know:)
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mokenpahu
76. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 26 2008, 6:19 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 26 2008, 6:19 PM EDT
"well.........love can cause many feelings.......one of that is hurt...the problem is in handling hurt feeling everybody has their own way too.....i always handle it in easy way...u not in love with me so what?? iam not gonna die bcos of it......or i never gonna hate person who isnt in love with me....but thats me.....we all r different person....some even have in their mind....all i can say...theres nothing wrong with that....right honesty is everything but hey... sometimes people lie to feel the love.......and everyone has right to feel in love even with someone who not in love with his/her......maybe the way is wrong..but there's nothing wrong with love , loving or in love...just my tiny brain opinion...quack quack mokie!!!"
GOOD ANSWER BABY DUCKIE......GOOD ANSWER BABY!! lol OOOOH U ARE WISE
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sriwijava
sriwijava
77. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 26 2008, 9:48 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 26 2008, 9:48 PM EDT
"Don't worry about it anymore...well I do but I don't...she never understood. Tough place to be. I really love her with all my heart...but I hate the person she's choosing to be...she's better than the games she plays...but she'll always run...even if she's the one that keeps pranking my phone...if in her heart she has something to say...she'll never say it...she'll just keep calling and hanging up without a word...and I just can't waste my time anymore...the lying hurts too much...and if it's gonna cost me my life I just can't be a part of hers anymore...missing hers killing me slowly from the inside out...but if I'd stayed I'd probably be dead by now...you say everybody has their way of handling things...well my ex is the love'em and leave'em type...me I guess I love too hard too much...I would've done anything for her...even now I'd die to protect her...but I just don't wanna hurt anymore."
u know.....u can be her friend.....being her friend mean u r able to love her, protect her....above of all be there for her...just pure feeling as friend......that will erase ur hurt.......will u try it?? quack quack
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katie295
katie295
78. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 26 2008, 9:50 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 26 2008, 9:50 PM EDT
"u know.....u can be her friend.....being her friend mean u r able to love her, protect her....above of all be there for her...just pure feeling as friend......that will erase ur hurt.......will u try it?? quack quack"
thanks ducky you are wise..............:)
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katie295
katie295
79. RE: How Do You Turn a Straight Girl?
Jun 26 2008, 9:52 PM EDT | Post edited: Jun 26 2008, 9:52 PM EDT
"thanks ducky you are wise..............:)"
we never know where each day goes..........but im not looking at the past anymore:).......
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