Discussion: communication breakdown

"i'm dying... i dont know what to do!! i love her but she kill me little by little.. we talk once a week and we consumed only 1 hour coz she's only have 3 hours brk.. she always saying that she is busy no tym for self and no tym for me. but she have tym for friends.... i hate her.. no effort at all.. "

"you have to find someone who loves you for you unconditonally and makes you the number one priority in their life....it does not work any other way."

"we are so in sync today dems....lol"

"donna at work today....that does not go well with the honeymoon period...lol"

"don't do anything that I wouldn't do....lol....which means party and have a blast for me too....guess there won't be many clothes this weekend....lol....except when yall come up for air"

"do not give 100% of yourself if she is only giving 0% percent of herself....it should at least be a 50/50 deal...."

"yeah maybe i should find someone else.. but i can't do coz i love her very much.. what else i can do? i wanna die!!! i hate my life now.. i feel nothing...."

"zhavra19-I have been exactly where you are and I hung in and let this person treat me that way for 26 years....and honey....in the end nothing changes.....cut your losses now and move on....yes, it is painful, yes you want to curl up and die, and yes i th ultimate end you will find that special person who will treat you exactly how you want to be treated in a relationship. God never promised everything in life would be easy....but consider my advice, deal with the pain and loss and time really does heal even if you feel that it won't. In the end, only you have to live with your choice and the consequences of it....so think it through and make the right decison for you....come vent on the board anytime that is what most of us are here for...Demi's advise always rings true also...you basically have two of us telling you the same thing in our own manner. If you are not always comfortable talking publically on the board send a pm to Demi or to me....either one of us would help however we can and both of us keep confidences and keep what you want private to ourselves....you do have people willing to be your friend and help you through a rough patch in life if you need someone. Try and have a good day......"

"tnx guys i think your both right. it's nice to talk with her and ask her what is the standard of our relationship and i promise i'm gonna be ready for what it takes. maybe i give myself a chance to talk with her now regarding to this, hopefully she give me a tym. if its not i juz give her a message mybe... i'm tired of thinking her, i'm tired of crying, tired of everything. and u know what guys the painful now we've done many sacrifices in our relationship but this tym that all sacrifices going to nothing!!!"