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nikkolette
nikkolette
22. RE: communication breakdown
Sep 22 2009, 12:43 PM EDT | Post edited: Sep 22 2009, 12:43 PM EDT
"hey guys nothing happen my gf don't know also wat to do in our relationship. but she said to me that she stil love me.. she's always reason out that her schedule is very toxic so she don't hve tym for me... is that valid reason? what she trying to say is i'm not important to her or i'm not part of her lyf now right?"
baby, I had that response for 26 years in a relatonship. It is easy to say I love you....doesn't cost her a thing. I got the busy schedule too....but it was amazing when I walked away called it done forever how much of her time freed up....too litle to ate and it will not stay that way either you go back nd she will go back to how she has always treated you. You are part of her life you just have bottom rung on the ladder and everyone and everything is more important than you.....please consider not wasting your life and find someone who deserves you and everything that you want to give them....and in my opinion this girl is not it.....best advice I can give...and I do care....never want to see anyone go through the pain and misery I went through. You can not change a person....and more importantly she does not want to make any changes to herself.....just don't be used.....it is a form of abuse..... Do you find this valuable?    
nikkolette
nikkolette
23. RE: communication breakdown
Sep 22 2009, 12:47 PM EDT | Post edited: Sep 22 2009, 12:47 PM EDT
"do what your heart tells you to do huni....and if your girlfriend does love you are you happy that she doesnt make time to call you.....if she doesnt have time to call you how often do you see her in person?"
following your heart is not always best, Chris, when the other person's heart does not beat for you. I can practically guarantee phone calls are few are far between, emails are pretty much non existent and seeing each other well that would be when she can work zhara into her schedule and zhara better drop everything and run when it is offered....or there is always that infamous or else....sorry so negative....this situation is just so damn familiar and she does not deserve to be treated like this by anyone on the face on this planet. Pack up your marbles and find someone who deserves you Zhara Do you find this valuable?    
demijoe
demijoe
24. RE: communication breakdown
Sep 24 2009, 1:10 PM EDT | Post edited: Sep 24 2009, 1:10 PM EDT
"following your heart is not always best, Chris, when the other person's heart does not beat for you. I can practically guarantee phone calls are few are far between, emails are pretty much non existent and seeing each other well that would be when she can work zhara into her schedule and zhara better drop everything and run when it is offered....or there is always that infamous or else....sorry so negative....this situation is just so damn familiar and she does not deserve to be treated like this by anyone on the face on this planet. Pack up your marbles and find someone who deserves you Zhara"
ill second that mate Do you find this valuable?    
demijoe
demijoe
25. RE: communication breakdown
Oct 1 2009, 3:32 PM EDT | Post edited: Oct 1 2009, 3:32 PM EDT
zhara have you come to any desicions huni Do you find this valuable?    
nikkolette
nikkolette
26. RE: communication breakdown
Oct 5 2009, 9:48 AM EDT | Post edited: Oct 5 2009, 9:48 AM EDT
"zhara have you come to any desicions huni"
zhara we are all wondering if you are okay and have come to any conclusions....in the end do what is best for you..... Do you find this valuable?    
zhayra19
zhayra19
27. RE: communication breakdown
Oct 16 2009, 10:46 AM EDT | Post edited: Oct 16 2009, 10:46 AM EDT
i just want u to know u ol guys me and my girlfriend were already break. its painful to me because she don't hve any reaction at all... because of that i know i did the rght dcsion..... Do you find this valuable?    
demijoe
demijoe
28. RE: communication breakdown
Oct 23 2009, 1:36 PM EDT | Post edited: Oct 23 2009, 1:36 PM EDT
"i just want u to know u ol guys me and my girlfriend were already break. its painful to me because she don't hve any reaction at all... because of that i know i did the rght dcsion..... "
if she didnt have any reaction huni she didnt care x Do you find this valuable?    
zhayra19
zhayra19
29. RE: communication breakdown
Nov 4 2009, 7:29 AM EST | Post edited: Nov 4 2009, 7:29 AM EST
yah she don't even care to me.... i'm in the process of moving now,but its too hard. i always go out with my friends for me not to think of her but stil i can't..... huhuhu its to painful..... Do you find this valuable?    
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